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	<title>Comments on: Ways to distinguish yourself &#8211; #36 Reduce the &#8220;Facade Diff&#8221;</title>
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		<title>By: Xplorator &#187; Stake out your blog boundaries</title>
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		<dc:creator>Xplorator &#187; Stake out your blog boundaries</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Aug 2007 04:02:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I can&#8217;t write about living without writing about myself. My life is my message. I am aiming for what Rajesh Setty calls &#8216;zero facade diff&#8217;. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Dec 2006 16:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rajesh,
Simple explanation of a powerful message. always you make the difference on the way of expression.
Thank you
Rajaguru
Manoj,
Your link on your comments, did not go through.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rajesh,<br />
Simple explanation of a powerful message. always you make the difference on the way of expression.<br />
Thank you<br />
Rajaguru<br />
Manoj,<br />
Your link on your comments, did not go through.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2005 06:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rajesh,
I have a different take on Facade Diff. An individual can attempt to make changes in their behavior in order to improve/change themselves. For that same reason, he/she may put on a different facade, practice that over and over and make a transformation and &#039;become the image&#039; that he/she projects. This is +ve Facade Diff. For example, if one wants to get promoted to the next level, begin acting as though you are already in that role and demonstrate your capabilites to stake a strong claim. On the other hand, a person who puts on a different persona for personal/selfish reasons or when faced with difficult circumstances is an example of -ve facade diff. Being oneself may not always work. Can a shy, retiring individual be himself and thus try to become adept at socializing/public speaking? I doubt it, unless they start thinking +vely and acting as though they aren&#039;t their usual self. Thoughts play a signficant role in making and transforming one. Speaking of thoughts, check out my blog on thought mgmt at http://emmmission.blogs.com/mmm_bogglingblogs/
Sincerely Manoj


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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rajesh,<br />
I have a different take on Facade Diff. An individual can attempt to make changes in their behavior in order to improve/change themselves. For that same reason, he/she may put on a different facade, practice that over and over and make a transformation and &#8216;become the image&#8217; that he/she projects. This is +ve Facade Diff. For example, if one wants to get promoted to the next level, begin acting as though you are already in that role and demonstrate your capabilites to stake a strong claim. On the other hand, a person who puts on a different persona for personal/selfish reasons or when faced with difficult circumstances is an example of -ve facade diff. Being oneself may not always work. Can a shy, retiring individual be himself and thus try to become adept at socializing/public speaking? I doubt it, unless they start thinking +vely and acting as though they aren&#8217;t their usual self. Thoughts play a signficant role in making and transforming one. Speaking of thoughts, check out my blog on thought mgmt at <a href="http://emmmission.blogs.com/mmm_bogglingblogs/" rel="nofollow">http://emmmission.blogs.com/mmm_bogglingblogs/</a><br />
Sincerely Manoj</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Sep 2005 21:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rajesh,
This is so TRUE.
There are many things that matter for one to be better and free - but this I think tops all.
Regards,
Manish

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rajesh,<br />
This is so TRUE.<br />
There are many things that matter for one to be better and free &#8211; but this I think tops all.<br />
Regards,<br />
Manish</p>
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