Comments on: Help! – My help was forgotten http://www.lifebeyondcode.com/2008/08/07/help-my-help-was-forgotten/ Personal and professional development for technology professionals. Sat, 20 Mar 2010 12:35:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Ranjith’s Castle » Ju’s Came Across #3 http://www.lifebeyondcode.com/2008/08/07/help-my-help-was-forgotten/comment-page-1/#comment-7665 Ranjith’s Castle » Ju’s Came Across #3 Thu, 28 Aug 2008 22:01:55 +0000 http://blog.lifebeyondcode.com/?p=1345#comment-7665 [...] One on what is the value of your help to some one as seen by you and as seen by the person. Read the complete post. [...] [...] One on what is the value of your help to some one as seen by you and as seen by the person. Read the complete post. [...]

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]]> By: Rajesh Setty http://www.lifebeyondcode.com/2008/08/07/help-my-help-was-forgotten/comment-page-1/#comment-7044 Rajesh Setty Thu, 07 Aug 2008 19:03:20 +0000 http://blog.lifebeyondcode.com/?p=1345#comment-7044 Thank you Micah for both the comments. I agree with you completely. In fact, Robert Cialdini talks about what you said in his latest book "Yes!" best, Raj Thank you Micah for both the comments. I agree with you completely. In fact, Robert Cialdini talks about what you said in his latest book “Yes!”

best,
Raj

]]> By: MIcah Solomon http://www.lifebeyondcode.com/2008/08/07/help-my-help-was-forgotten/comment-page-1/#comment-7017 MIcah Solomon Thu, 07 Aug 2008 16:37:32 +0000 http://blog.lifebeyondcode.com/?p=1345#comment-7017 ...or "I know this is important to you" or something along those lines that stresses the importance of what you are providing. Never, however, to the point of sounding grudging. Get to that point, and you may as well not assist. …or “I know this is important to you” or something along those lines that stresses the importance of what you are providing. Never, however, to the point of sounding grudging. Get to that point, and you may as well not assist.

]]> By: MIcah Solomon http://www.lifebeyondcode.com/2008/08/07/help-my-help-was-forgotten/comment-page-1/#comment-7015 MIcah Solomon Thu, 07 Aug 2008 16:35:30 +0000 http://blog.lifebeyondcode.com/?p=1345#comment-7015 "Expect Ingratitude" is a dale carnegie dictum that can bring you a lot of peace of mind. However, as a business strategy, sometimes it helps to end a helping transaction with "I know you would do the same for me." “Expect Ingratitude” is a dale carnegie dictum that can bring you a lot of peace of mind.

However, as a business strategy, sometimes it helps to end a helping transaction with “I know you would do the same for me.”

]]> By: Rajesh Setty http://www.lifebeyondcode.com/2008/08/07/help-my-help-was-forgotten/comment-page-1/#comment-7007 Rajesh Setty Thu, 07 Aug 2008 13:43:10 +0000 http://blog.lifebeyondcode.com/?p=1345#comment-7007 Hi Bill, Look forward to seeing you VERY soon. Exciting. Yes, you brought up a good point. Most people in the CUE category don't have a clue that they are in the cue category. What has helped me in the past is just to make them aware by telling stories of others who are in the CUE category and how they may be losing out. Of course if they are in the CUE category with full knowledge and awareness, the question for us is "whether we want them in our network in the first place" Cheers Rajesh Hi Bill,

Look forward to seeing you VERY soon. Exciting.

Yes, you brought up a good point. Most people in the CUE category don’t have a clue that they are in the cue category.

What has helped me in the past is just to make them aware by telling stories of others who are in the CUE category and how they may be losing out.

Of course if they are in the CUE category with full knowledge and awareness, the question for us is “whether we want them in our network in the first place”

Cheers
Rajesh

]]> By: Bill Sherman http://www.lifebeyondcode.com/2008/08/07/help-my-help-was-forgotten/comment-page-1/#comment-7006 Bill Sherman Thu, 07 Aug 2008 13:38:08 +0000 http://blog.lifebeyondcode.com/?p=1345#comment-7006 Hi Rajesh, When you explained this concept in San Jose, you had my complete attention, and you've developed the idea even further. I love the CUE acronym, it's something that's easy to remember. Are there ways to coach a CUE person to help them appreciate gifts and transform their expectations into gratitude? Hi Rajesh,

When you explained this concept in San Jose, you had my complete attention, and you’ve developed the idea even further.

I love the CUE acronym, it’s something that’s easy to remember. Are there ways to coach a CUE person to help them appreciate gifts and transform their expectations into gratitude?

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